Sleeping with sluts?
October 28th 2007 14:48
Ever had a one night stand lads? Ladies? Are they stupid questions?
I was in a bar last night, the same as last week in fact and i met a girl who seemed very nice. She was petite and nice to talk to. After a bit of kissing here and there, i offered her back to my place. At this point she replied with the the 'whore-est' sentence i've ever come across. So ridiculous infact, i found it funny.
'I can't really, i've had 5 boys back to mine in the last 7 days, my friends might think i'm a slut!!!'.
I left soon after...alone.
I don't know why i found it so off putting, i've done things with a few girls in a week in my earlier university lifetime, but the fact is that girls have the choice to, most guys don't: even if we are sluts, we are not the worst sluts (usually). That's not to say i have anything against casual sex, or girls being promiscuous, i'm quite fond of it infact, but 5 in 7 is quite a feat and as much novelty as there may have been, i didn't want to make it 6 in 8. No wonder her friends weren't interested in even speaking to me, they knew they'd probably never see me again
Thinking about it this morning with a shaky stomach and a drunk head, i figure there isn't much advantage to sleeping with mega-sluts. The upside is you're probably going to get a good seeing to in the bedroom, the downsides include herpes, genital warts and other things that might not care if you're wearing a condom (if you're wearing one that is). More importantly though, if you're looking for sex and something more -- and that is only an if -- then you're in a catch 22, as you'll get the sex, but probably not the relationship, but you'll want the relationship more now you've had sex, if that makes sense? It all usually concludes in upset feelings, a date with the doctor for anti-biotics and another person you have to avoid.
Of course, your situation usually drives your sex organs, if you're at Uni, have fun. If you've gone without sex for a few months, have fun. If you're looking for a stable girlfriend, don't start looking in a loud, sweaty smelling bar, it won't work out. Why do most people go out? No survey would ever be honest, as girls won't tick the box that says, 'for sex', as it's against their nature, right? Most people do go for sex, to get absolutely smashed of their tits, or even some people love to dance the night away. Most don't go for a boyfriend/girlfriend...probab ly.
(...'probably' because my mum and dad met in a bar, and i'm pretty sure yours did too).
I don't like the sugarhouse too much, but i'm betting that most of my posts will originate from there, my next one is already laid out. I've got the great honour to say that i will soon be getting my own site, possibly two sites, one for this, and one for poker blogs, it's all very exciting. Thanks for the messages again guys, much appreciated.
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